June 7, 2008

  • y can't i get through to her??

    what do u do when u know someone is hurting inside, u know they need to open up and talk to someone, but they won't?

    There is a young girl that i know.  She's been going through a lot, she's got a psycho mom that puts her through hell.  She gets made fun of at school.  The only way i know about her getting made fun of at school is through other people, not her.  Because of her mom i can't talk to her much.  I used to be able to talk to her a lot and she would open up to me and confide in me. but now, because of her mom, she doesn't have the opportunity to open up to me as much.  This has sort of closed her up.  i don't believe she's talking to anyone about her problems.  Some of the people she's around are hard to trust.  I'm afraid if she doesn't talk to anyone she'll keep things bottled up, and i know how that can affect u, both mentally and physically.

    what should i do?

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  • Prayer. God will provide opportunities, if thats what He wants to happen. Send her a friend card,if possible, let her know your thinking about her.She needs to open up to the Lord,he'll help her deal with things. Its great that you want to help her out with her problems.Remember though,her mom might cause problems for you if she thinks your interfering. You need to pray that God opens up the door for you to give wisdom,and wait for that answer. Dont step in to a situation that will cause problems for you too.If there is some bad blood still, you need to be cautious. Prayer is the best thing.If you know the problem she is having,pray that there will be resolution. Prayer is the best thing to do when you dont know solutions.Open your Bible to an area that describes the problem,and pray over it. I hope that helps! Your a good friend! Love,Becky

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